Cool Runnings!

Dear Thinking, Feeling Friends:

I know I have been away for a long while, and the world has changed greatly since my last blog. The shoreline and cultural and physical landscapes of my hometown New York has changed forever, we’ve re-elected a president, Big Tex ominously caught fire during the last days of the Texas State Fair, and I’ve started a new phase of my professional career to much ado, support, and fanfare (more in a future post).

So, I write today to check-in, to let you know that I have not disappeared, I’ve just simply been on a blogging sabbatical. I am in my chrysalis, preparing to emerge with rainbow wings that will carry me to and through the next stage of my professional and personal development. 

Even philosophers, writers, artists and innovators need time to rest and recharge. I will return after mercury retrograde ends on November 26, and will begin to share news of new developments with my coaching practice, workshops, and alternative fundraisers; I also plan to present a series of activity-based blog entries during the coming year. 

So, read and mull over your monthly astrology report from Susan Miller (for your sun and rising signs), and journal to track of your emotions, thoughts, and your heart’s desires. Stock-up on basic necessities (water, canned goods, fire-makers, warm and waterproof gear, make emergency plans, just in case your city has an unexpected shortfall of goods and services like my hometown New York has endured. Despite the challenges of post-weather events, recognize that Hurricane Sandy has helped usher in the beginning of our new American society; a society where  grassroots is dynamic, effective and responsive, the educated and ”unemployed” (but not idle) serve others (99%-ers organize the relief effort) to get real supplies in the hands of real people on the ground for the people, and where the technological creativity of teenagers provides information and access for those without gasoline. Every challenge holds a lesson, and New York is showing us that innovation in the face of adversity can create alternate pathways to providence and community.

At this time, I invite you to join me in virtual companionship, to take advantage of what mercury retrograde has to offer us individually an collectively. Now is the time to practice self-reflection, and clear our lives of detritus to make space for future opportunity. Tun inward and revel in your own chrysalis. Practice your art, craft or trade; examine the landscape of your life and ferret out things that no longer work for you (relationships, jobs, agreements, activities, habits), and release them, Simply step away from old agreements that no longer serve you; step away with appreciation for what you’ve learned from those situations or people, for they were your teachers, and turn toward your next lessons. There is no bad or good, only experience. It is only by letting go that you can receive future gifts, and these few weeks are the time cosmically given to us to clear our celestial cupboards for future goodies.

I bid you adieu for now, but will check in each week with any thoughts or observations, and will return in full force at the end of November.

In compassionate companionship,

Shawndel 

by Gabrielle Castaneda Pruitt

 

 

 

 

 

 

Heritage Wednesday::The Elevator Speech

A Heritage Elevator Speech? Yes. If you are a professional, a small-business owner, an academic, an artist or a dreamer, you have inherited a culture that is short on time yet ravenous for great ideas. The elevator speech is what bridges the gap between innovators and their supporters. If you are fortunate enough to encounter an interested or strategically placed person who can propel you on your path, you need a hook, a compelling and SHORT story to engage them in your vision. These interactions are often the result of chance social encounters with friends of friends, colleagues at professional conferences or all-staff meetings at work. At best, you may get a 1-4 minute audience with this person, so make it count!

“So, what do you do for a living?”

I have heard it said a few times by artists and academic-types that the sales-pitch feels like the hardest part. “Why must I sell people on my idea when it is clearly something that: will inspire others / help the greater good / is intrinsically valuable”. Yes, your idea may be all of those things, but no idea is helpful without the support of other people. It’s a condition of being born a social being. The truth is, if you have a degree, a job, or you have friends who support your endeavors, then your inner-salesperson is alive and well. We sell people on ideas of who we are, what we are capable of, and even convince companies and institutions to believe that we are ambassadors for the best interests of an academic discipline, department or product line.

If you dislike the “sale” then that is an indicator that you approach the sales moment with the sensibilities of the inner artist, or academic etc, that is to say, you may be approaching the sales moment with the portion of yourself that prefers to be alone and simply do the work, rather than drum-up support for it. That frame of mind is good when creating or writing, but does not directly serve the proliferation of your goal, project or idea. You will need to free your inspired salesperson self to share your idea, or it will remain small and undernourished, and will eventually wither and die young, never having received support from those who could help it thrive.

“No kidding? I have always been interested in that! Let’ set up a meeting time to discuss this further. I’d love to help you in any way I can…”

Approach the following exercise with the passion of the artist, the honed expression of your inner academic, and the tact and extroversion of your inner salesperson.

Elevator speeches should be customizable on the fly, so this requires you to really think about your project, ideas or goals, and think of as many possible applications or collaborations that you would ENJOY pursuing. This refines your thought process about the project, and cultivates a flexible approach to describing your idea.

If your networking goal is to meet as many allied people as possible, then your elevator speech goal is to craft as many versions of an introduction.

Now that you know the “whys” of an elevator speech, let’s discuss the “how”.  There are five dimensions to the elevator speech. They cover the points most likely to interest the listener, yet leaves them enough time to comprehend the information and ask for more if they so choose.

1. Who am I and what is my research / project / initiative?
2. Why is this new fangled thing better that what already exists? What does your offering give that has never been offered before?
3. What makes your approach/ project/ initiative/ research so important, notable or special?
4. What are your desired outcomes / goals?  What is your vision?
5. BREATHE

 More on STEP 5

After the sales pitch, the rest is up to the listener / audience. You can make a quick introduction, but the buy-in cannot be rushed.  After you finish your elevator speech, make eye contact, smile, take a deep breath and relax your shoulders while counting to 5.  By the time you compose yourself, you will be ready to listen to their response, and answer any questions.

Remember, this is a conversation, and questions signify interest and active listening, not necessarily criticism (remember: critique is good); so receive their questions as guidance toward the clarification and manifestation of your goal. No idea is created in a vacuum.

Give the listener time to digest and respond to your “speech”. Let them begin to sense the greater implications and importance of your work. If you give them time to respond, inevitably, they will respond with thoughtful questions. Keep your answers concise. Less is more. The “less is more” speech is composed of the prize nuggets that makes listeners want to seek more information. This is salesperson-ship at its best! Your brilliant idea enhanced by a refined presentation does all the work!

Kudos to You!

Congratulations! This was a long post, so if you’ve made it this far, you’ve already primed your inner salesperson to do you proud. The hardest part is writing the speech, so once you’ve written the first draft. Say it aloud, practice it, test it on your friends and family, coworkers, and your boss (if appropriate). When you can improvise alternate versions and feel comfortable with the process, you’re ready to take it into the field…

I thought I’d share my revised elevator speech with you as an example, so here it is, in outline format:

1. Who am I and what is my research / project / initiative?
   1. My name is Shawndel Fraser and I am an Environmental Psychologist. I am building a creative and healing arts retreat for women survivors.
2. Why is this newfangled thing better that what already exists? Why is your project / goal / idea unique?
   1. Where most retreats cater to luxury consumers, yogis, or spiritual seekers, The Blue Dome is a retreat for women who wish to hone new emotional, physical, psychological, spiritual tools to transform limited and limiting beliefs about past intense experiences.
3. What makes your approach/ project/ initiative/ research so important, notable or special?
   1. The Blue Dome is a restorative and safe place where women create community; they repose in physical, emotional and psychological comfort, and take part in creative and healing art activities that help them realize one thing: survivors don’t simply survive, they Artfully Transcend. Any survivor has the potential and ability to transcend all types of violence and circumstance.
4. What are your desired outcomes / goals?  What is your vision?
   1. My goal is for the women to realize during their stay, that their past traumas were divine lessons in disguise.
   2. My vision is that they will come to learn that their survivor status is actually a call to contribute in global healing though their unique expression of leadership in their everyday lives.

I hope this is helpful, do share your elevator speech should you feel so inclined. I will offer constructive critique if you do!

Shawndel